{"id":1762,"date":"2020-04-02T16:54:49","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T13:54:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/?page_id=1762"},"modified":"2025-11-20T20:57:50","modified_gmt":"2025-11-20T17:57:50","slug":"meeting-a-bereaved","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/en\/meeting-a-bereaved\/","title":{"rendered":"Interacting with the bereaved"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><h1 style=\"text-align: center;\">INTERACTING WITH THE BEREAVED<\/h1>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;max-width:50%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-dashed\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e4f3f6;border-top-width:2px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\">Interacting with a person experiencing grief is an important skill: several academic studies have shown that respectful and supportive interaction with a professional is of <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\">great help<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\"> to people who have lost a loved one, both in the short and long term (according to the <\/span><\/span><span class=\"TextRun Underlined SCXW118043756 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\">evidence-based clinical guidelines for nursing<\/span><\/span><span class=\"TextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\"> by the <a href=\"https:\/\/hotus.fi\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Finnish Nursing Research Foundation<\/a>). We can say that the skill of interacting with a grieving person is an integral part of the support that a professional can give to the bereaved. Whether your job description includes reporting, examination, rescuing, <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\">nursing<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\"> or diagnosing, your duty as a professional is to ensure that your actions help the grieving person during <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\">a very stressful<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW118043756 BCX0\"> period in their life.<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW118043756 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-content-boxes content-boxes columns row fusion-columns-3 fusion-columns-total-3 fusion-content-boxes-1 content-boxes-icon-boxed content-left\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#02b2e3;--awb-iconcolor:#006e96;--awb-margin-top:10px;--awb-margin-bottom:10px;--awb-hover-accent-color:#02b2e3;--awb-circle-hover-accent-color:#02b2e3;\" data-animationOffset=\"top-into-view\"><div style=\"--awb-backgroundcolor:#e4f3f6;--awb-iconcolor:#006e96;\" class=\"fusion-column content-box-column content-box-column content-box-column-1 col-lg-4 col-md-4 col-sm-4 fusion-content-box-hover content-box-column-first-in-row\"><div class=\"col content-box-wrapper content-wrapper-background content-wrapper-boxed link-area-link-icon link-type-button-bar icon-hover-animation-fade\" data-animationOffset=\"top-into-view\"><div class=\"heading heading-with-icon icon-left\"><a class=\"heading-link\" href=\"#interaction\" target=\"_self\"><div class=\"icon\"><i style=\"border-color:#a3d8e5;border-width:1px;background-color:#a3d8e5;box-sizing:content-box;height:42px;width:42px;line-height:42px;top:-71px;margin-left:-21px;border-radius:50%;font-size:21px;\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fontawesome-icon fa-hands-helping fas circle-yes\"><\/i><\/div><h2 class=\"content-box-heading fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"--h2_typography-font-size:18px;--fontSize:18;line-height:1.5;\">What constitutes as good support and interaction?<\/h2><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><div class=\"content-container\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW160478844 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW160478844 BCX0\">What type of professional interaction is beneficial to the grieving person?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><a class=\" fusion-read-more fusion-button-bar\" href=\"#interaction\" target=\"_self\">Read more<\/a><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div style=\"--awb-backgroundcolor:#e4f3f6;--awb-iconcolor:#006e96;\" class=\"fusion-column content-box-column content-box-column content-box-column-2 col-lg-4 col-md-4 col-sm-4 fusion-content-box-hover \"><div class=\"col content-box-wrapper content-wrapper-background content-wrapper-boxed link-area-link-icon link-type-button-bar icon-hover-animation-fade\" data-animationOffset=\"top-into-view\"><div class=\"heading heading-with-icon icon-left\"><a class=\"heading-link\" href=\"#difficult\" target=\"_self\"><div class=\"icon\"><i style=\"border-color:#a3d8e5;border-width:1px;background-color:#a3d8e5;box-sizing:content-box;height:42px;width:42px;line-height:42px;top:-71px;margin-left:-21px;border-radius:50%;font-size:21px;\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fontawesome-icon fa-exclamation-triangle fas circle-yes\"><\/i><\/div><h2 class=\"content-box-heading fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"--h2_typography-font-size:18px;--fontSize:18;line-height:1.5;\">What issues may make interacting with the bereaved more difficult?<\/h2><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><div class=\"content-container\">\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW78224585 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW78224585 BCX0\">Professionals have a great desire and need to help a person who has lost a loved one. Why is it sometimes difficult to know what to do or say when interacting with the bereaved?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><a class=\" fusion-read-more fusion-button-bar\" href=\"#difficult\" target=\"_self\">Read more<\/a><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div style=\"--awb-backgroundcolor:#e4f3f6;--awb-iconcolor:#006e96;\" class=\"fusion-column content-box-column content-box-column content-box-column-3 col-lg-4 col-md-4 col-sm-4 fusion-content-box-hover content-box-column-last content-box-column-last-in-row\"><div class=\"col content-box-wrapper content-wrapper-background content-wrapper-boxed link-area-link-icon link-type-button-bar icon-hover-animation-fade\" data-animationOffset=\"top-into-view\"><div class=\"heading heading-with-icon icon-left\"><a class=\"heading-link\" href=\"#what-may-help\" target=\"_self\"><div class=\"icon\"><i style=\"border-color:#a3d8e5;border-width:1px;background-color:#a3d8e5;box-sizing:content-box;height:42px;width:42px;line-height:42px;top:-71px;margin-left:-21px;border-radius:50%;font-size:21px;\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fontawesome-icon fa-child fas circle-yes\"><\/i><\/div><h2 class=\"content-box-heading fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"--h2_typography-font-size:18px;--fontSize:18;line-height:1.5;\">What factors affect the support given to the bereaved?<\/h2><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><div class=\"content-container\">\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW78359194 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW78359194 BCX0\">What can professionals and their employer organizations do to help the bereaved get better support?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><a class=\" fusion-read-more fusion-button-bar\" href=\"#what-may-help\" target=\"_self\">Read more<\/a><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"accordian fusion-accordian\" style=\"--awb-border-size:1px;--awb-icon-size:13px;--awb-content-font-size:16px;--awb-icon-alignment:left;--awb-hover-color:#a3d8e5;--awb-border-color:#a3d8e5;--awb-background-color:#e4f3f6;--awb-divider-color:#e4f3f6;--awb-divider-hover-color:#e4f3f6;--awb-icon-color:#006e96;--awb-title-color:#02b2e3;--awb-content-color:#000000;--awb-icon-box-color:#02b2e3;--awb-toggle-hover-accent-color:#c6abd2;--awb-title-font-family:&quot;Roboto&quot;;--awb-title-font-weight:700;--awb-title-font-style:normal;--awb-title-font-size:16px;--awb-content-font-family:&quot;Roboto&quot;;--awb-content-font-style:normal;--awb-content-font-weight:400;\"><div class=\"panel-group fusion-toggle-icon-boxed\" id=\"accordion-1762-1\"><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-ab5f5a06cd05f8a8f fusion-toggle-has-divider\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_ab5f5a06cd05f8a8f\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"ab5f5a06cd05f8a8f\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-1762-1\" data-target=\"#ab5f5a06cd05f8a8f\" href=\"#ab5f5a06cd05f8a8f\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">Sources used on the website:<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"ab5f5a06cd05f8a8f\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_ab5f5a06cd05f8a8f\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p><strong>Sources on the Internet:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Hoitoty\u00f6n tutkimuss\u00e4\u00e4ti\u00f6 (2018). <em>\u00c4killisesti kuolleen henkil\u00f6n l\u00e4heisten tukeminen. Hoitoty\u00f6n suositus<\/em> (online). Hoitoty\u00f6n tutkimuss\u00e4\u00e4ti\u00f6n asettama ty\u00f6ryhm\u00e4. Helsinki: Hoitoty\u00f6n tutkimuss\u00e4\u00e4ti\u00f6, 2018 (accessed on 4 September 2018). Retrieved from <a title=\"www.hotus.fi\" href=\"http:\/\/www.hotus.fi\">www.hotus.fi<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Poijula, S. (2018). <em>Suru<\/em>. Soili Poijulan kotisivut (accessed on 9 November 2018). Retrieved from<a href=\"http:\/\/www.soilipoijula.fi\/tietosivut\/suru\/\"> www.soilipoijula.fi\/tietosivut\/suru\/\u00a0<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Literature:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Aho A-L., Savolainen S. (2012). <i>Kirjallisuuskatsaus: Vanhempien selviytymist\u00e4 edist\u00e4v\u00e4t ja est\u00e4v\u00e4t tekij\u00e4t lapsen kuoleman j\u00e4lkeen<\/i>. Thanatos 1 (2), 1\u201328.<\/li>\n<li>Dyregrov K., Dyregrov A. (2008).\u00a0<em>Effective Grief and Bereavement Support. The Role of Family, Friends, Colleagues, Schools and Support Professionals. <\/em>Lontoo: JKP<em>.<\/em><\/li>\n<li>Erjanti H., Paunonen-Ilmonen M. (2004). <em>Suru ja surevat. Surevien hoitoty\u00f6n perusteet<\/em>. Helsinki: WSOY. Vaikeus auttaa surevaa 145\u2013148, Auttajan taakka 151\u2013152<\/li>\n<li>Hautala, E., Tuominen, E. (2017). <i>Ensivaiheen tuki \u00e4killisesti puolisonsa menett\u00e4neelle. <\/i>Tampereen ammattikorkeakoulun opinn\u00e4ytety\u00f6 (AMK).<\/li>\n<li>Hedrenius S., Johansson S. (2016). <em>Kriisituki. Ensiapua onnettomuuksien, katastrofien ja j\u00e4rkytt\u00e4vien tapahtumien k\u00e4sittelyyn.<\/em> Tallinna: Tieotsanoma. Finnish translation by Strellman U. Swedish original <em>Krisst\u00f6d vid vid olyckor, katastrofer ock sv\u00e5ra h\u00e4ndelser: att st\u00e4rka m\u00e4nniskors motst\u00e5ndskraft <\/em>(2013)<em>.<\/em><\/li>\n<li>Itkonen J. (2018). <em>Kun vauvaonni vaihtuu kuoleman suruun &#8211; Narratiivinen tutkimus kohtukuolemasta, lapsen kuoleman aiheuttamasta surusta ja selviytymisprosessista sek\u00e4 kirkon tuesta. <\/em>Helsinki: Helsingin yliopisto.<\/li>\n<li>Pulkkinen M. (2017). <em>Surun syliss\u00e4. Suomalaisten kokemuksia menetyksest\u00e4.<\/em> Helsinki: S&amp;S.<\/li>\n<li>Saari, S; Kantanen, I.; K\u00e4m\u00e4r\u00e4inen, L.; Parviainen, K.; Valoaho, S.; Yli-Piril\u00e4, P. (toim.) (2009). <i>H\u00e4d\u00e4n hetkell\u00e4 \u2013 psyykkisen ensiavun opas.<\/i> Helsinki: Kustannus Oy Duodecim ja Suomen Punainen Risti.<\/li>\n<li>Savolainen S., Kaunonen M. &amp; Aho A-L. (2013). <i>Vanhempien selviytymist\u00e4 auttavat tekij\u00e4t lapsen kuoleman j\u00e4lkeen.<\/i> Hoitotiede 25 (3), 222\u2013235.<\/li>\n<li>\n<div><span class=\"highlight selected\">Shariff<\/span>, A., Olson, J., Santos Salas, A. &amp; Cranley, L. (2017). N<em>urses\u2019 experiences of providing care to bereaved families who experience unexpected death in intensive care units: A narrative overview.<\/em> Canadian Journal of Critical Care Nursing 28 (1), 21\u201329. Surevien saamaan tukeen vaikuttavat tekij\u00e4t.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>Virta T., Kaunonen M., Aho A-L. (2017). <i>Henkirikosuhrien l\u00e4heisten suru sek\u00e4 selviytymist\u00e4 edist\u00e4v\u00e4t ja est\u00e4v\u00e4t tekij\u00e4t. <\/i>Thanatos 6 (2), 5\u201348.<\/li>\n<li>V\u00e4lim\u00e4ki, Elina (2017). <i>Ei unohdu koskaan. Henkirikoksen j\u00e4ljet. <\/i>Jyv\u00e4skyl\u00e4: PS-kustannus.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Other sources:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Poijula, Soili: <em>Monikasvoinen suru. <\/em>Lahden kes\u00e4yliopiston 14.11.2018 j\u00e4rjest\u00e4m\u00e4 koulutus ja koulutusmateriaalit.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"interaction\" class=\"fusion-container-anchor\"><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-3 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><h2 class=\"fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"text-align: center; --fontsize: 30; line-height: 1.5;\" data-fontsize=\"30\" data-lineheight=\"45px\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW119563933 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW119563933 BCX0\">What <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW119563933 BCX0\">constitutes as<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW119563933 BCX0\"> good support and interaction?<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-4 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-3 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:10%;--awb-padding-right:10%;--awb-padding-left:10%;--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-border-color:#e4f3f6;--awb-border-right:3px;--awb-border-style:dashed;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-4\"><h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #02b2e3;\">Treat the grieving person as an individual.<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:5px;margin-bottom:5px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-1 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"203\" height=\"300\" alt=\"Treat the grieving person as an individual. Graphics by Surevan kohtaaminen\" title=\"kohtaa sureva yksil\u00f6n\u00e4\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kohtaa-sureva-203x300.png\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-2111\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kohtaa-sureva-200x296.png 200w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kohtaa-sureva-400x591.png 400w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kohtaa-sureva-600x887.png 600w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kohtaa-sureva-800x1183.png 800w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kohtaa-sureva-1200x1774.png 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-5\"><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW14687803 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW14687803 BCX0\">Map the support network and need for support. Ask what kind of support the grieving person wants.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-4 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:10%;--awb-padding-right:10%;--awb-padding-left:10%;--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-6\"><h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #02b2e3;\">Show compassion.<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-2 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"244\" height=\"300\" alt=\"Show compassion. Graphics by Surevan kohtaaminen.\" title=\"ole-lasna\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ole-lasna-244x300.png\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-2117\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ole-lasna-200x246.png 200w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ole-lasna-400x491.png 400w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ole-lasna-600x737.png 600w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ole-lasna-800x983.png 800w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ole-lasna-1200x1474.png 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-7\"><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW7197964 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW7197964 BCX0\">It is important for the grieving person to know that you care. Listen and be present.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-5 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:10%;--awb-padding-right:10%;--awb-padding-left:10%;--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-border-color:#e4f3f6;--awb-border-left:3px;--awb-border-style:dashed;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-8\"><h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #02b2e3;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW97413446 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW97413446 BCX0\">Give them your time.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-3 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"248\" height=\"300\" alt=\"Give them your time. graphics by Surevan kohtaaminen.\" title=\"anna-aikaasi\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-aikaasi-248x300.png\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-2119\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-aikaasi-200x242.png 200w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-aikaasi-400x484.png 400w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-aikaasi-600x726.png 600w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-aikaasi-800x967.png 800w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-aikaasi-1200x1451.png 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-9\"><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW80356032 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW80356032 BCX0\">Reserve enough time for meeting the bereaved.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-5 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-margin-bottom:2%;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-6 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:-2%;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-dashed\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:#e4f3f6;border-top-width:3px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-6 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-7 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:10%;--awb-padding-right:10%;--awb-padding-left:10%;--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-border-color:#e4f3f6;--awb-border-right:3px;--awb-border-style:dashed;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-10\"><h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #02b2e3;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW66614474 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW66614474 BCX0\">Give information.<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-4 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"136\" height=\"300\" alt=\"Give information. Graphics by Surevan kohtaaminen.\" title=\"anna-tietoa\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-tietoa-136x300.png\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-2121\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-tietoa-200x441.png 200w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-tietoa-400x883.png 400w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-tietoa-600x1324.png 600w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-tietoa-800x1766.png 800w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-tietoa-1200x2648.png 1200w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/anna-tietoa.png 1314w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-11\"><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #006e96;\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"TextRun SCXW17157660 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW17157660 BCX0\">Talk in a direct and easy-to-understand manner. The grieving person needs information about what has happened, their grief and support options \u2013 also in writing.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-8 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:10%;--awb-padding-right:10%;--awb-padding-left:10%;--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-12\"><h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #02b2e3;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW38588201 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW38588201 BCX0\">Respect the grief.<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-5 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"296\" height=\"300\" alt=\"Respect the grief. Graphics by Surevan kohtaaminen.\" title=\"kunnioita-surua\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kunnioita-surua-296x300.png\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-2123\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kunnioita-surua-200x203.png 200w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kunnioita-surua-400x406.png 400w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kunnioita-surua-600x608.png 600w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kunnioita-surua-800x811.png 800w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kunnioita-surua-1200x1217.png 1200w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/kunnioita-surua.png 1665w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-13\"><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW267376028 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW267376028 BCX0\">Loved ones have the right to grieve, no matter the situation. Do not try to diminish the grief or make your own interpretations.\u202f When talking about the deceased, use their name.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-9 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:10%;--awb-padding-right:10%;--awb-padding-left:10%;--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-border-color:#e4f3f6;--awb-border-left:3px;--awb-border-style:dashed;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-14\"><h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #02b2e3;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW221858079 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW221858079 BCX0\">Refer them forward.<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-6 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"143\" alt=\"Refer them forward. Graphics by Surevan kohtaaminen.\" title=\"ohjaa-eteenpain\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/ohjaa-eteenpain-1-e1543309593935.png\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-2125\"\/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:50px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-15\"><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW168899020 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW168899020 BCX0\">It is good to make sure that the grieving person continues to receive support and is not left alone. The grieving person may need:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span class=\"TextRun SCXW207330764 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW207330764 BCX0\">crisis support<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span class=\"TextRun SCXW43606067 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW43606067 BCX0\">health care<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span class=\"TextRun SCXW95588190 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW95588190 BCX0\">conversational therapy<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW196939815 BCX0\">peer <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW196939815 BCX0\">support<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span class=\"TextRun SCXW46941612 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW46941612 BCX0\">financial support<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span class=\"TextRun SCXW214632665 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW214632665 BCX0\">practical help<\/span><\/span>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-7 fusion-flex-container has-pattern-background has-mask-background nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1144px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-10 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-16\"><p><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW220769144 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW220769144 BCX0\">Each instance of loss and grief is individual<\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/strong><span class=\"TextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\">The causes leading to death vary, and the loss always occurs at a particular point in life. People are different, each with their own life history and personal ways of reacting <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW173726940 BCX0\">in<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\"> and dealing with <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\">difficult situations<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\">. These things influence how the bereaved person deals with and expresses their grief. Each grieving person should be treated as an individual. Remember to ask them what kind of support they need. Grief also affects children and young people. Their grief is just as deep as that of <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\">an <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\">adult, even though the way that they express grief is different depending on the age of the child. The death of a loved one affects children and young people very strongly, and <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\">they always need adult support to cope with loss and grief. Read more about the <\/span><\/span><a class=\"Hyperlink SCXW173726940 BCX0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/en\/childhood_and_adolescent_grief\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><span class=\"TextRun Underlined SCXW173726940 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\">grief of children and young people<\/span><\/span><\/a><span class=\"TextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW173726940 BCX0\">.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW238285597 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238285597 BCX0\">You can show compassion through both words and deeds<\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/strong><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238285597 BCX0\">When interacting with a person who has lost a loved one, you should express your sympathy and condolences in some way. Expressions such as \u201cI am sorry for your loss\u201d or \u201cMy condolences\u201d are considered common and neutral expressions in professional interactions and in Finnish culture. The life of a person who has lost a loved one has been <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238285597 BCX0\">greatly disturbed<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238285597 BCX0\">, and they feel hurt if what has happened is ignored during the interaction. Expressing your condolences acts as a conversation opener, after which you can discuss other issues related to loss and grief. You can also tell the grieving person that you have no words suitable for the situation. In addition to words, you can show compassion through actions, like touching or looking at the bereaved, or simply being present for them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><strong><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW95409663 BCX0\">Having a professional present and listening is <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW95409663 BCX0\">very important<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW95409663 BCX0\"> to the bereaved<\/span>. <\/strong><\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Grieving people value compassionate interaction and unhurried presence. People who have lost a loved one often want to talk to someone about what has happened, and they need someone who listens to them. When supporting the bereaved, listening is more important than talking. When supporting a grieving person, you have to accept that you cannot take away or diminish their grief. It is important that the grieving person is not left alone, but that there are people who can bear their pain.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">The important thing is not to try to \u201csolve\u201d a person\u2019s grief. We cannot make grief go away by acting in a certain way or by trying to find an explanation or meaning for what has happened. You should also never compare different kinds of losses with each other or value one kind above another. Well-meaning advice or expressions used to comfort the grieving person often feel hurtful to them. Expressions such as \u201cNo one is given more than they can bear\u201d, \u201cTime heals all wounds\u201d or \u201cIt will feel better in a year\u201d may be said with good intentions, but they do not comfort the bereaved.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW252974430 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW252974430 BCX0\">The grieving person needs information about what has happened<\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/strong><span class=\"TextRun SCXW266476858 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW266476858 BCX0\">Professionals should provide the bereaved with information about matters related to death and answer any questions they may have. It is often comforting for the bereaved to hear facts about what has happened and to receive general information about grief. This information helps the bereaved to understand what has happened, as well as their own reactions related to the death of a loved one. Professionals should speak clearly and use terms that are easy to understand. If the grieving person is in shock, it may be difficult for them to receive information. There should also be an opportunity for discussion later, and information should also be provided in writing. The bereaved should also be given information about the support available to them<\/span><\/span>.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW193489204 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW193489204 BCX0\">People who have experienced loss are allowed to feel grief throughout their lives<\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/strong><\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\">You should always respect the grief of a person who has lost a loved one. Everyone has the right to grieve, no matter the situation. Never downplay anyone\u2019s grief. When talking about the deceased, you can and should use their name. Do not expect the grief to progress through certain stages or set time limits for how long it can last. People live with grief, and it often <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\">accompanies<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\"> them in some way throughout their li<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\">ves<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\">. It is natural to occasionally feel intense grief even after <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\">a long period<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\"> of time after the loss. The <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\">initial<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\">pain <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW187069601 BCX0\">does ease, however, and life goes on, also bringing good and positive things with it<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\">In addition to the support of loved ones, the bereaved may also need professional help<\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\">The grieving person should be informed about their rights, the different forms of support available and, if necessary, referred to professional support. You should also encourage the bereaved to accept support. If the death occurs at an early age or suddenly, crisis support is an important first line of support, in addition to the support of loved ones. You should also give the grieving person written information about the different forms of support available to them, so that they can familiarize themselves with this information later. The need for support may not arise until <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW195931775 BCX0\">some time<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\"> after the loss. That is why it is important to offer support both at the <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\">initial<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\"> stages and <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\">later on<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\">. Learn more about the different <\/span><\/span><a class=\"Hyperlink SCXW195931775 BCX0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/en\/support-channels\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><span class=\"TextRun Underlined SCXW195931775 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\">support channels<\/span><\/span><\/a><span class=\"TextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\">, <\/span><\/span><span class=\"TextRun Underlined SCXW195931775 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\">peer support<\/span><\/span><span class=\"TextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\"> and <\/span><\/span><span class=\"TextRun Underlined SCXW195931775 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195931775 BCX0\">grief organizations<\/span><\/span>.<\/span><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-8 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-11 fusion_builder_column_1_2 1_2 fusion-one-half fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;width:50%;width:calc(50% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.5 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-reading-box-container reading-box-container-1\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#006e96;--awb-margin-top:0px;--awb-margin-bottom:84px;\"><div class=\"reading-box\" style=\"background-color:#e4f3f6;border-width:1px;border-color:rgba(246,246,246,0);border-left-width:3px;border-left-color:var(--primary_color);border-style:solid;\"><a class=\"button fusion-button button-default fusion-button-default-size button-default-size button-flat fusion-desktop-button fusion-tagline-button continue fusion-desktop-button-margin continue-right\" style=\"-webkit-box-shadow:none;-moz-box-shadow:none;box-shadow:none;border-radius:2px 2px 2px 2px\" href=\"https:\/\/hotus.fi\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span>Nursing Research Foundation<\/span><\/a><div class=\"reading-box-description\">In autumn 2018, the Nursing Research Foundation published a set of research-based guidelines created by experts: Supporting the loved ones of a person who has died suddenly. We have used the nursing guidelines as the basis for the practical advice given on this website on how to interact with the bereaved.<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><a class=\"button fusion-button button-default fusion-button-default-size button-default-size button-flat fusion-mobile-button continue-right\" style=\"-webkit-box-shadow:none;-moz-box-shadow:none;box-shadow:none;border-radius:2px 2px 2px 2px\" href=\"https:\/\/hotus.fi\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span>Nursing Research Foundation<\/span><\/a><\/div><svg style=\"opacity:0.70;\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" version=\"1.1\" width=\"100%\" viewBox=\"0 0 600 28\" preserveAspectRatio=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#a)\"><mask id=\"b\" style=\"mask-type:luminance\" maskUnits=\"userSpaceOnUse\" x=\"0\" y=\"0\" width=\"600\" height=\"28\"><path d=\"M0 0h600v28H0V0Z\" fill=\"#fff\"\/><\/mask><g filter=\"url(#c)\" mask=\"url(#b)\"><path d=\"M16.439-18.667h567.123v30.8S438.961-8.4 300-8.4C161.04-8.4 16.438 12.133 16.438 12.133v-30.8Z\" fill=\"#000\"\/><\/g><\/g><defs><clipPath id=\"a\"><path fill=\"#fff\" d=\"M0 0h600v28H0z\"\/><\/clipPath><filter id=\"c\" x=\"5.438\" y=\"-29.667\" width=\"589.123\" height=\"52.8\" filterUnits=\"userSpaceOnUse\" color-interpolation-filters=\"sRGB\"><feFlood flood-opacity=\"0\" result=\"BackgroundImageFix\"\/><feBlend in=\"SourceGraphic\" in2=\"BackgroundImageFix\" result=\"shape\"\/><feGaussianBlur stdDeviation=\"5.5\" result=\"effect1_foregroundBlur_3983_183\"\/><\/filter><\/defs><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-12 fusion_builder_column_1_2 1_2 fusion-one-half fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;width:50%;width:calc(50% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.5 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;margin-bottom:10px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-reading-box-container reading-box-container-2\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#000000;--awb-margin-top:0px;--awb-margin-bottom:84px;\"><div class=\"reading-box\" style=\"background-color:#e4f3f6;border-width:1px;border-color:rgba(246,246,246,0);border-left-width:3px;border-left-color:var(--primary_color);border-style:solid;\"><a class=\"button fusion-button button-default fusion-button-default-size button-default-size button-flat fusion-desktop-button fusion-tagline-button continue fusion-desktop-button-margin continue-right\" style=\"-webkit-box-shadow:none;-moz-box-shadow:none;box-shadow:none;border-radius:2px 2px 2px 2px\" href=\"https:\/\/hotus.fi\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span>Nursing Research Foundation<\/span><\/a><div class=\"reading-box-description\">In autumn 2023, the Nursing Research Foundation published a set of research-based guidelines created by experts: Supporting and interacting with the loved ones of patients in palliative and hospice care. <\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><a class=\"button fusion-button button-default fusion-button-default-size button-default-size button-flat fusion-mobile-button continue-right\" style=\"-webkit-box-shadow:none;-moz-box-shadow:none;box-shadow:none;border-radius:2px 2px 2px 2px\" href=\"https:\/\/hotus.fi\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span>Nursing Research Foundation<\/span><\/a><\/div><svg style=\"opacity:0.70;\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" version=\"1.1\" width=\"100%\" viewBox=\"0 0 600 28\" preserveAspectRatio=\"none\"><g clip-path=\"url(#a)\"><mask id=\"b\" style=\"mask-type:luminance\" maskUnits=\"userSpaceOnUse\" x=\"0\" y=\"0\" width=\"600\" height=\"28\"><path d=\"M0 0h600v28H0V0Z\" fill=\"#fff\"\/><\/mask><g filter=\"url(#c)\" mask=\"url(#b)\"><path d=\"M16.439-18.667h567.123v30.8S438.961-8.4 300-8.4C161.04-8.4 16.438 12.133 16.438 12.133v-30.8Z\" fill=\"#000\"\/><\/g><\/g><defs><clipPath id=\"a\"><path fill=\"#fff\" d=\"M0 0h600v28H0z\"\/><\/clipPath><filter id=\"c\" x=\"5.438\" y=\"-29.667\" width=\"589.123\" height=\"52.8\" filterUnits=\"userSpaceOnUse\" color-interpolation-filters=\"sRGB\"><feFlood flood-opacity=\"0\" result=\"BackgroundImageFix\"\/><feBlend in=\"SourceGraphic\" in2=\"BackgroundImageFix\" result=\"shape\"\/><feGaussianBlur stdDeviation=\"5.5\" result=\"effect1_foregroundBlur_3983_183\"\/><\/filter><\/defs><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"difficult\" class=\"fusion-container-anchor\"><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-9 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-13 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-17\"><h2 class=\"fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"text-align: center; --fontsize: 30; line-height: 1.5;\" data-fontsize=\"30\" data-lineheight=\"45px\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW50889847 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW50889847 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"heading 1\">What issues may make interacting with the bereaved more difficult<\/span><\/span>?<\/h2>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-10 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-14 fusion_builder_column_4_5 4_5 fusion-four-fifth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;width:80%;width:calc(80% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.8 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><ul style=\"--awb-size:17px;--awb-iconcolor:#006e96;--awb-line-height:28.9px;--awb-icon-width:28.9px;--awb-icon-height:28.9px;--awb-icon-margin:11.9px;--awb-content-margin:40.8px;\" class=\"fusion-checklist fusion-checklist-1 fusion-checklist-default type-icons\"><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-no\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-angle-right fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><span style=\"color: #93559d;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW149608968 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW149608968 BCX0\">We are trying to solve their grief<\/span><\/span>.<\/span> <\/strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW149608968 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW149608968 BCX0\">When a fellow human being faces a devastating loss, we feel a great need to help them. In our desire to help, we may forget about the fact that you cannot heal someone\u2019s death or make a person\u2019s grief smaller<\/span><\/span>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-no\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-angle-right fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><span style=\"color: #93559d;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW185865689 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW185865689 BCX0\">We do not understand grief<\/span><\/span>.<\/span> <\/strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW162010141 BCX0\">Grief is a holistic experience, and it affects all aspects of life. Grief is always individual, and people have <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW162010141 BCX0\">different ways<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW162010141 BCX0\"> of grieving. As our knowledge and understanding increase<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW162010141 BCX0\">s<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW162010141 BCX0\">, our interactions with grieving people also improve<\/span>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-no\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-angle-right fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><span style=\"color: #93559d;\"><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><strong><span class=\"TextRun SCXW217806244 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW217806244 BCX0\">We try to protect ourselves either consciously or unconsciously<\/span><\/span>. <\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW217806244 BCX0\">The death in question may be so devastating that we do not want to think about it, and the grief of the loved one is so enormous that it may be difficult to face. Most people want to avoid being exposed to things that cause them distress, which is completely natural. But if a <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW217806244 BCX0\">professional distances<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW217806244 BCX0\"> themselves too much from grief, the bereaved person may interpret it as indifference<\/span>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-no\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-angle-right fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><span style=\"color: #93559d;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW162227793 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW162227793 BCX0\">Our resources are lacking<\/span><\/span>.<\/span> <\/strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW162227793 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW162227793 BCX0\">Many organizations run on insufficient resources. This makes it difficult to interact with clients in an unhurried and empathetic way<\/span><\/span>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-15 fusion_builder_column_1_5 1_5 fusion-one-fifth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;width:20%;width:calc(20% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.2 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element in-legacy-container\" style=\"--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-7 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"246\" title=\"vaalea-turkoosi-pilvi\" src=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/vaalea-turkoosi-pilvi-300x246.png\" alt class=\"img-responsive wp-image-2035\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/vaalea-turkoosi-pilvi-200x164.png 200w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/vaalea-turkoosi-pilvi-400x328.png 400w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/vaalea-turkoosi-pilvi-600x491.png 600w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/vaalea-turkoosi-pilvi-800x655.png 800w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/vaalea-turkoosi-pilvi-1200x983.png 1200w, https:\/\/www.surevankohtaaminen.fi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/vaalea-turkoosi-pilvi.png 1791w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"what-may-help\" class=\"fusion-container-anchor\"><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-11 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-16 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:30px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-18\"><h2 class=\"fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"text-align: center; --fontsize: 30; line-height: 1.5;\" data-fontsize=\"30\" data-lineheight=\"45px\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW117815330 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW117815330 BCX0\">What factors affect the support given to the bereaved?<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:10px;margin-bottom:30px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-19\"><p><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175689135 BCX0\">Many <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175689135 BCX0\">different factors<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW175689135 BCX0\"> affect how a grieving person receives support from professionals. These factors can be related to both professionals and organizations. When helping a grieving person, the focus should be on the person\u2019s wants and needs. Below, we have collected some tips that may help professionals and organizations contribute to the support offered to the bereaved<\/span>.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-12 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-17 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><ul style=\"--awb-size:17px;--awb-iconcolor:#006e96;--awb-line-height:28.9px;--awb-icon-width:28.9px;--awb-icon-height:28.9px;--awb-icon-margin:11.9px;--awb-content-margin:40.8px;\" class=\"fusion-checklist fusion-checklist-2 fusion-checklist-default type-icons\"><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-no\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-check fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW52632644 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW52632644 BCX0\">Having more knowledge about grief and how to interact with the bereaved<\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-no\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-check fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW37392830 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37392830 BCX0\">Dealing with and clarifying a professional\u2019s relationship to grief and death<\/span><\/span>.<\/span> <\/strong><span style=\"color: var(--awb-color8); background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); letter-spacing: var(--body_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW37392830 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW37392830 BCX0\">Professionals should address their own experiences of loss and be aware of their potential impact on the interactions. It is important for professionals to talk about and deal with their own emotions and the situations they face at work with an expert, such as a work counsellor<\/span><\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-no\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-check fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW166636630 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW166636630 BCX0\">Work community support and taking care of yourself<\/span><\/span>.<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"> <span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW166636630 BCX0\">Looking after your own well-being and coping at work is important. Being able to talk about stressful issues within the work<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW166636630 BCX0\">community and receiving support from colleagues help professionals cope better at work<\/span>.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-no\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-check fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW195944061 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195944061 BCX0\">Attitudes and practices within the organization<\/span><\/span>.<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"color: #006e96;\"> <span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195944061 BCX0\">The organization must make sure that it has adequate resources, policies, staff skills and support available.\u202f<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195944061 BCX0\">Being compassionate when interacting with <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW195944061 BCX0\">a grieving person and helping them get further support should be seen as an inseparable part of the work of professionals who help bereaved people<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-18 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - 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